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Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The Power of Our Thoughts

A few months ago, I read an article about “John of God,” a man living in a remote area in Brazil who performs miracles.  People flock to him to cure them of all sorts of illnesses and diseases, etc.  Most miracles are performed via “invisible surgeries,” without touch, but some involve a man who is not a doctor cutting into a person often with nothing more than a dirty kitchen knife. 

that’s enough to make me quiver with fear.  For many who visit him, he is their last resort.  He does this without charging people.  He does it because he feels he has a gift that he is supposed to share. 

How a malignant tumor disappears or how a blind person sees after visiting “John of God” is a question without an answer.  Is it a miracle?  Is it faith? Is it a sham?  I don’t know.  There are reports of him performing eye “surgeries” on people where he scrapes cells off the surface of their eye without any sort of sedative or without any sort of pain relief.  The “patient” sits there letting him scrape cells off their eye(s) sitting perfectly still.  That alone is unfathomable to me! 

I do, however, know the power of our thoughts on our bodies.  Our brains are such amazing organs.  Our brains and our thoughts can make things happen to our bodies.  As someone who loves psychology, having earned a degree in it, I have learned of so many psychological disorders that just fascinate me. 

One of the most remarkable is a conversion disorder, where real symptoms occur that are so indicative of a real disorder where that disorder does not exist in that person.  For example, I type medical reports for some pediatric neurologists and come across many pseudo-seizures, where patients present with such typical seizure characteristics, complete with convulsions and all.  When given an EEG, no record of brain wave activity is found. 

The patient is NOT faking their convulsions.  Their body is having convulsions and very real signs.  However, they are not having an epileptic seizure.  Often, when digging for reasons for them, there is often an underlying factor, such as anxiety or stress, etc. there. 

Some times, your brain/mind cannot handle what is going on and it just “snaps,” for lack of a better word.  It is amazing and incredible, fascinating and a little bit scary. 

Given that your mind/thoughts can create symptoms of something serious, I believe that it is also possible for your mind/thoughts could be possible of curing some things.  I absolutely leave room open for miracles…for the divine interference in these amazing circumstances.

My reason for writing about this/thinking about this now is because I’ve been thinking a lot about things under our control and things not under our control.  I cannot control how people think, act, or feel, but knowing how thoughts can become real, I can choose to try to make my thoughts worthwhile.  I know how people’s thoughts can affect me, so it makes me want to be a person whose thoughts work for good and not evil (and I also wish for world peace…my beauty contestant moment here). 

Also knowing how thoughts affect us, I can choose not to let other’s thoughts alter who I am…who I know I am.  Good and bad, our thoughts are so powerful…so wonderful…so amazing…so incredible…so painful…so hurtful…so damaging.  I’m challenging myself to have thoughts for good, to look for good, to think good.  Do you want to challenge yourself? 

From the article:  “What is it we're hoping for when we ask to be healed? To lose an attitude that's holding us back? To lay down a psychic burden? Is it, simply, the ability to be happy at all times? "To learn to love ourselves," Heather had said earlier in the week, "that's the lifelong work." Whatever was going on in this town, it was in service of that goal. Maybe we couldn't fully understand the process yet, but that didn't make it less real. "It's like this," Zsolt told me. "A hundred years ago if someone showed you an iPhone, you wouldn't have believed it. Everything is always progressing. We know so little and our senses are limited, so limited." If you aren't open to the mystery, in other words, you'll never glimpse it. In Abadiânia that veil between the seen and the unseen is a tissue-thin paper full of rips. It is a place not only where miracles happen, but where no one thinks that is unusual.”

 

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

The Power of Our Words

A recent conversation at our house the other night: 

Emma:  “Mom, Tyson called me a lame-o.”

Me:  “Well, are you a lame-o?”

Emma:  “No!”

Me:  “Well, then you don’t need to worry about it.” 

No, Emma’s not a “lame-o,” but telling her to not worry about it wasn’t going to cut it.  The words were spoken and her little feelings were hurt.  That conversation continued several more times involving different words and even a reversal of roles at times.  Finally, Dad and I sat the kids down because they just wouldn’t stop hurting each other with their words. 

We reminded them that they were family and that as such, they were there to support each other…to bring each other up…NOT to try to bring each other down, either on accident or on purpose.  We had them tell each other at least one thing they liked about the other person. 

Tyson said something about Emma being smart sometimes (his version of a compliment).  Emma said something about Tyson being funny. 

As silly as being called a “lame-o” seems, it wasn’t the first time, or the last, I’m sure. It came from someone she loves (at least part of the time) and it hurt her.  I could tell her until I’m blue in the face that she knows she’s not a ______ (fill in the blank), but she’s a girl.  She’s my daughter, which means she’s emotional and sensitive, and it affects her. 

As a female, as a mother, I want my daughter to have the self-assurance to not have little things like that bother her, but then I tried to relate it to my life as an adult. True, I’m in my (cough, cough) mid-30’s, independent, fairly confident, and self-assured for the most part.  Even then, words affect me.  They can bring me up and conversely, they can tear me down and rip me to shreds.  It’s easy to say to not give people that power of you, but good or bad, thoughts and words from people who you care about can affect you. 

In that thought, I’m going to try to make my words work for the best.  My words to my kids, my words to my friends, and my words to others. Maybe take a minute before I yell at them (Reading this it sounds like I’m just yelling all day at them!) and think whether there’s a better way to deal.   After all, I really hate yelling at them, they seem to turn me out really quickly when I do.  “What?”  “Huh?”

I’ll let you know…

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Wishing and Browsing…

Sitting at my kitchen table typing this blog post, I’m looking at our nearly ancient table.   Justin bought it before we were married.  It’s wood.  It’s sturdy.  It’s a bit scratched up.  I’m thinking more modern dining room furniture.  I did some online browsing at CSN stores since they cover over 200+ stores with a wide variety of items, from cute cookware to cute boots!  Here’s some sampling of what I’m thinking about: 

Lexington-Zacara-Movida-High-_-Low-Bistro-Dining-Table-in-Sable 

Madison Gathering Table in Ebony

Sitcom-Furniture-Novato-Gathering-Table

Pretty nice stuff.  Probably just a dream for now!  What do you think?

Monday, January 17, 2011

Sunday, January 16, 2011

It’s the Small Things

My husband leaves for his work home sometime on Sunday.  Today, he left early because of an impending storm.  While I hate that he travels far to go back to work, I also hate that he has to leave.  See, I love my husband.  It’s kind of corny to say, but I’m more me when I’m with him.  I miss him when he’s gone… a lot. 

I came home from church today and he had already gone, which made me sad.  Sundays are rough that way. My soul was lifted when I went to put my shoes away and saw this note on my bathroom mirror:

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It’s so small.  It’s so simple.  It made my heart sing.  I know my husband loves me.  We’ve been married for more than 10 years and he tells me daily, but this little note was just a little reminder that he stopped to think of me on his way out of town, knowing that I would be missing him. 

I don’t need flowers.  I don’t need jewelry (at least not all the time).  I don’t need something showy.  It’s the simple things…the small things. Thanks my love!  Thanks for loving me and marrying me! 

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Friday, January 7, 2011